Coach Expert and Practitioner,
How do you know if you are just stuck for ideas or if you have something truely stopping you ?
Here is how to know
✸ You see so much creative content online, and you ask yourself: How did that creator come up with such a great idea, and you secretly say to yourself, I wish I came up with this idea.
✸ No matter how hard you try, it seems like all your ideas for content are stuck.
✸ You have downloaded multiple content planners, but nothing has yet been implemented.
✸ You believe that visibility is essential for your business, but you have a plan B in case it doesn’t work.
✸ You feel stuck in your day-to-day, craving attention but also fighting with a conflict to be private and remain a private person.
✸ You only share small things on social media, and most of the things you share are not about you or are making fun of yourself in the hopes others wont do it first
✸ You rarely post anything offering a service or offering it to clients for fear people will say no.
✸ You believe if you just give away enough value and freebies, clients will eventually hire you, so never ask or invite others to follow you further.
I hate to be the bearer of bad news, if you identify with any of the above behaviours. These behaviours are coming from long standing fears that are getting in the way of your dream of freedom and an impactful business.
How do I know this?, as I’ve studied the mind for 15 years and know every resulting behaviour that is generated from negative beliefs and fears.
You may be thinking, I’ve tried everything; I love personal development, but it didn’t work. You’re right, the self help currently on the market won’t stick to removing long standing fears,
If you are ready and no longer want to battle with fear, let’s move to the fun part where we break down step by step the guide that will take you from invisible to visible.
In order to understand how being visible will benefit you, I want to share a quick insight, your ability to be fully visible is the difference between having a business that trickles in money, to having a fully automated business that brings in consistent, predictable clients from week to week.
I want to share with you why creating a mantra and affirmations, that a lot of business coaches teach, isn’t enough to bypass this resistance, A lot teach that saying things like, I am someone who follows through, can be the easy fix to help someone move past resistance to social platforms . If you don’t believe me. I want you to say to yourself that, I am someone who follows through.
I want you to notice in yourself, has your motivation to be visible increased, ?
Has your mind come up with ideas on how to be seen, get credibility from your market, and be bold without fear ?
Has your mind suddenly exploded a onset of content ideas that are set up to attract your ideal clients to you ?
If not, I want to share a secret. What if I told you that the things I mentioned above don’t need to be taught to you? That’s not your problem, you know how to do this deep down, it’s just that your fears are blocking the answers because they don’t want you to proceed.
What if I shared with you a way to not use mantras that don’t work, or didn’t need to push you to do something you didn’t want to do, and opened the flood gates of ideas in your mind?
What would be of interest ?
If that’s is you want , you’re going to love what I share next.
Here I have laid the common reasons someone will choose to play small and be conflicted about wanting to be fully seen and sabotaging themselves by not setting up their socials is a very professional way, or not doing the checklist required to get their profiles optimised.
You may feel or believe
Being seen means I will be criticised
The fear of failure
The fear of judgement
The fear that you are not enough
The fear that you are not worthy
They believe you must be perfect to be loved.
The belief that you don’t deserve good or success
The fear that if you succeed, it will conflict with the way you believe people see you
You believe deep down that you are a failure because you never really had anyone’s love or approval.
The belief that you are invisible and don’t exist
The belief more visibility means more work, and more work causes more stress.
Life is meant to be hard.
Life isn’t supposed to be easy, or fun it’s meant to be a struggle, as is business.
I’m worthless and deserve hurt, pain, criticism, and judgement.
Others don’t like me.
I must be perfect.
I am not enough to be rich, successful, or a thought leader.
I have nothing of value to offer.
People won’t find me interesting.
I don’t do anything right.
What others think about me defines my worth and my value,
Do any of these resonate? If so,
I’m about to start sharing insights into how to eliminate for good, and am almost done with the Social explosion visibility guide.
You can join us on August 1 2023 here https://www.facebook.com/groups/440385788047129/
Did any resonate with you ?